This program saved my sanity and helped me to prioritize my life and have an amazing relationship with my son. I learned boundary setting, communication skills and self care and my life is truly transformed.
Bonnie
This program is my self care. I joined this program for me ..the reinforcement I needed. Barbra is a mom who has openly shared her story and knowledge with us to make real change .best risk on the internet I have ever taken .
Paula Endsworth
Two years ago I made the best decision of my life. I decided to save me! I joined Barbara Decker. Not only is Barbara 100% a real person she is honest, brilliant, compassionate, experienced and cares. Forever grateful.
Tena D. Andersen
Women's Empowerment Coaching That Actually Works
Reclaim Your Peace, Power, and Voice – One Calm, Clear Step at a Time
You’ve spent decades giving, caring, managing, and showing up for everyone else. Now it’s time to prioritize you — your peace, your voice, your choices.
Our programs are designed to make life simpler, calmer, and more joyful — not to add more to your plate. Many women begin noticing a shift within the very first week, as old patterns start to loosen and space opens up for peace and clarity.
Many coaching programs offer a one-size-fits-all solution, handing you a rigid set of rules to follow. We don’t.
Our approach offers flexible frameworks you can shape around your own needs and priorities. With guidance from your coach and support from a community of women who’ve been there, you choose what matters most, what to focus on first — so every step feels grounded in your life, not someone else’s.
Frameworks, Not Formulas
You’ll never be told what to do. Instead, we offer flexible frameworks you can adapt to your life. Our tools work in a variety of ways, giving you structure without scripts — and always leaving the choice in your hands.
Guided by Women Who’ve Been There
Our coached programs are led by Love Another Way™ Graduate Coaches — women who’ve faced these same struggles, taken the journey themselves, and now return to guide others with compassion, lived experience, and hard-won wisdom.
Change That Fits Your Life
We know your life is already full. That’s why everything we teach is designed to make things simpler, calmer, and more sustainable — never another burden on your shoulders. Many women notice a shift within the first week, as small changes begin creating big relief.
What Does Women’s Empowerment Coaching Look Like Here?
At Love Another Way, empowerment coaching is delivered through structured, practical programs — each designed to meet women where they are. You can choose the path that fits best for you:
Liberate Your Life™
Break free from people-pleasing and over-giving — and reclaim yourself.
What It Is:
Liberate Your Life is an 8-week coached program designed to help you break free from the cycles of over-giving, over-helping, and people-pleasing. These patterns may feel selfless, but they quietly drain your peace, energy, and sense of self.
The program blends two powerful frameworks — the RISE Method and the Pathway to Peace Protocol™. Together, they give you structure to uncover unconscious habits, test new choices, and build responses that support the life you want. This isn’t about adding more “to-dos.” It’s about replacing old cycles with calmer, lighter, more aligned ways of being.
The result? You stop running on autopilot and begin reclaiming your confidence, your voice, and your joy. For many women, the shift starts within the very first week.
Who It’s For:
Liberate Your Life is for women who feel overlooked or taken for granted in their closest relationships — with a spouse, child, parent, in-laws, siblings, friends, or coworkers.
Some want deeper connection with people they love. Others need better ways to handle relationships they can’t avoid.
If you’re tired of over-giving, staying quiet, or feeling disrespected, this program will help you be heard, be respected, and live life on your own terms.
What You’ll Learn:
- How to recognize and interrupt the unconscious patterns behind over-giving, over-helping, and people-pleasing… so you can finally make choices that reflect your own needs and priorities
- How to use the R.I.S.E. Method + Pathway to Peace Protocol to break old habits — where you once reacted automatically with guilt, frustration, or silence, now you respond with calm, clarity, and confidence
- How to move past resentment and anxiety — and step into a grounded confidence, self-trust, and a plan that keeps your life aligned with what matters most to you
Transformative Communications™
Speak the words that matter, in a way they can truly hear.
What It Is:
Grounded in our U.P.R. Protocol, Transformative Communications is an 8-week coaching program that helps you finally say what you need to say — calmly, clearly, and in a way that others can actually hear.
You’ll learn how to set healthy boundaries and create stronger, more respectful relationships without adding more conflict.
Who It’s For:
Transformative Communications is for women who feel dismissed, disrespected, or walked over in their most important relationships — with a spouse, a child, a parent, in-laws, siblings, friends, or co-workers.
It’s for women who want those relationships to feel better — whether that’s because they deeply love and value the person and want more closeness, or because they need to manage unavoidable interactions with more calm and control.
This program is about more than just finding your voice. It’s about being heard, reducing conflict, and being respected.ssion, purpose, and peace.
What You’ll Learn:
- Why difficult conversations with your loved one are so hard (and why this is actually a good thing) — and how one simple perspective shift dissolves internal resistance so you can have “energetically clean” conversations.
- A counterintuitive conversation starter that practically forces the other person to lower their defenses — without opening yourself up to attack or criticism.
- How to say “no” to a request and still have your loved one feeling heard, understood and appreciated (even if they don’t like your answer) — use this in combination with my counterintuitive conversation starter for even better results!
- And so much more!
Meet the Women Who Will Support Your Journey
Each of our Graduate Coaches has done the deep work of the Pathway to Peace Protocol in their own lives. They understand what it feels like to be stuck, to people-please, and to finally choose yourself. Now they’re here to guide you with empathy, insight, and real experience.
Barbara Decker — Founder & Teacher
Barbara is the founder of Love Another Way and the creator of all the frameworks and programs you’ll find here. Her personal journey inspired the tools now used by thousands of women to reclaim their peace, confidence, and voice. Barbara stays closely connected with participants by hosting live “Coach-A-Thon” sessions, being active daily in the private Facebook community, and continuing to teach and encourage women as they put these tools into practice.
Patti — Lead Graduate Coach
Patti was a participant in the very first program Barbara ever offered — and she’s been part of Love Another Way ever since. What began as her own journey of healing grew into a calling to help other women do the same. Patti returned to train as a coach, and today she serves as our Lead Graduate Coach, guiding women with the wisdom of lived experience, deep compassion, and a steady belief in what’s possible.
She has a great passion for helping others break free from the constraints that may be holding them back with a heart full of kindness.
Patti will offer you a safe and nurturing place for you to explore, reflect and ultimately dig deep in understanding those issues that are holding you back from peace and comfort in your life.
Jacque — Assistant Lead Graduate Coach
Jacque has been an integral part of Live Well and Fully almost since its beginning and serves as the assistant lead graduate coach. She has participated in every one of Barbara’s programs, where she has guided countless students with wisdom and care.
You will also see Jacque’s presence on our weekly live Zoom coaching calls. She is truly beloved by all who have had the privilege of working with her.
Jacque is passionate about growth and transformation. She has witnessed remarkable changes in relationships as people learn and apply new skills in these programs. She understands the intricacies of the human experience and is deeply committed to helping you better understand the behaviors that are robbing you of your peace.
Our Love Another Way Graduate Coaching Team
Alongside Barbara and Patti, you’ll also be supported by a team of trained Graduate Coaches. Each of them began as a student in our programs and later returned as a coach, dedicated to helping other women find their own peace and strength. They understand the challenges because they’ve lived them — and they’ll guide you forward with compassion and practical support.
Real Coaching. Real Change. Real Women.
Don’t just take our word for it. Here’s what past clients and students have said:
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Is Women’s Empowerment Coaching Right for You?
The Love Another Way approach to transformation your life could be a great fit for you if:
- You’re in the second half of life and ready to finally put yourself on the list — without guilt
- You’ve spent years people-pleasing and over-giving, and you’re ready to reclaim your voice and your time
- You want practical tools and real frameworks — not platitudes or quick fixes
- You’re seeking calm, sustainable growth that strengthens your relationships instead of straining them
- You’re ready to feel respected, confident, and at peace in your daily life
FAQs: Women’s Empowerment Coaching with Barbara Decker
Women’s empowerment coaching is guided support that helps you step out of old patterns of over-giving, people-pleasing, and self-sacrifice — so you can reconnect with your own needs, speak with confidence, and make choices that truly reflect your priorities.
At Love Another Way, our coaching gives you flexible frameworks, tools, and community support that fit your life — helping you create lasting change that feels calm, respectful, and sustainable.
That’s one of the most common things we hear. Many women come to us after years of trying books, courses, or advice that felt good in the moment but didn’t create lasting change. Our approach is different. Instead of handing you a one-size-fits-all formula, we give you flexible frameworks, practical tools, and real support. You’ll learn how to make small but powerful shifts that stick — at your own pace, in ways that fit your life. Women often say, “This is the first thing that actually helped.” What topics does coaching cover? You’ll find coaching and tools to help with:
– Setting boundaries (without guilt or shutdowns)
– Communicating clearly with challenging people
– Identifying and shifting lifelong patterns
– Rebuilding your sense of self
– Making calm, confident choices (without second-guessing)
Each program focuses on a different transformation, so you can start with what matters most to you right now.
You don’t have to figure it out on your own. We offer a free 15-minute clarity call with a Love Another Way coach who will listen, get a sense of your situation, and help you decide which program is the best fit for what you need right now. This call is simply about guidance — it’s not a coaching or therapy session — but it will give you confidence about where to begin.
Yes — absolutely. All of our coached programs include access to the Love Another Way Women’s Empowerment Community. It’s a private, supportive space where you can connect with like-minded women, ask questions, and share both wins and struggles along the way. Best of all, you’re never alone in there. Our graduate coaches and Barbara herself are active in the group every single day — answering questions, offering encouragement, and cheering you on as you put these tools into practice. You’ll be supported by both peers and mentors who truly understand the journey you’re on.
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